10 Tips for Attracting Girls

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By fresnavee

Here are 10 quick and easy tips for attracting girls. There are no "codes" about women that you need to look for. These are just plain, tested and proven methods that work. Instead of trying to look for something silly like a "test question" from a girl, be yourself!

And remember, dating isn't a game or a method; it's a way to find someone you like!

  • Talk to new people! It might sound easy, or a rehash of everything you've ever been told about, well, meeting new people, but it's the truth. You know that girl sitting by herself at the park? Tell her it's a nice day! Say something nice, nonchalant, but something you could converse about!
  • Be friendly! And by friendly, "Hey baby, you look hot" does not fit here. That might work on a small fraction of girls, but it's a terrible introduction. Comment on her hair, her face, her eyes, or anything else. Do not make a lewd comment. Those just backfire.
  • Be courteous. Chivalry isn't dead, dear reader! Holding the door open for a woman and then saying something interesting is a great way to get a conversation started to where you can introduce yourself.
  • Have confidence; go places! That's right, instead of sticking to your normal routine, do something different. Jog to work. Mix things up and meet someone new!
  • Dress appropriately! A peacock struts around displaying it's feathers to attract a mate. You are a peacock, so one of the biggest tips I can give for attracting girls is to dress up! But dress appropriately, it's just silly to go jogging in a tuxedo.
  • Act appropriately! A clown dresses up in makeup to make people laugh. Why would that be important? Because you shouldn't use fart jokes around a woman unless she makes one (a joke) first! Intelligent jokes are the key here!
  • Use networking! Facebook, MySpace, Tagged, even some online games are all valid ways of finding people. There are dating applications like Zoosk on both Facebook and MySpace which make meeting someone easier.
  • Use Online Dating! There are hundreds of sites which specialize in finding the exact type of person you are looking for. For example, Match.com has over 15,000,000 users currently on it. Just be sure to be nice and friendly (instead of creepy and stalker-like) when you introduce yourself to someone online!
  • Be yourself! This can't be preached enough! You need to be yourself when you're meeting new people, be it if you want to attract girls or just friends.
  • Be self-confident! You're a great person. You wouldn't be looking for tips to attract girls if you didn't have the self-confidence to use a little bit of introspection on yourself and try to see what you're doing wrong when it comes to girls. It might sound roundabout at first, but it's wholly true.

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twogroce 23 months ago

Great Hub and thankful you put that out there! I find it a major turn-off when a man uses foul language and nasty jokes. I find it disrespectful and sends up a major red flag. Definatly not someone I want to date!

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fresnavee Hub Author 23 months ago

Thank you! That's the major point I was trying to get at when I made this hub. I am very glad to see I was able to get it across.

picture recovery software 22 months ago

Nice tips..

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katiem2 22 months ago

Great tips for attracting girls I knows these to all be great approaches working well for the guys. Thanks :)

6 weeks ago

what if you want to speak to her,but when you are set to go ,you feel weak and can't take a step ??

zahid 3 weeks ago

i liked it.

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